I caught my husband watching porn despite telling me he can't keep an erection

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband said he was going to clean his car while I popped into town.

MY husband said he was going to clean his car while I popped into town.


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He was pleasuring himself to porn – on his laptop a half-naked woman was also pleasuring herself. I stood there for a couple of seconds watching and he was beside himself with embarrassment when he realised.

I felt sick to my stomach. I didn’t think porn was an issue for us.

I’m 44, he’s 51 and has problems keeping an erection. He’s always telling me that he’s an old man, but that was no old man I saw that day.

DEIDRE SAYS: Lots of men view porn online, but it is designed to be addictive and has a nasty tendency to numb their responses to a real-life partner.

Tell your husband you need to have an honest talk about your sex life.

Insist he sees his GP for a check-up to rule out any underlying medical reason for his erection problems.

My e-leaflet Solving Erection Problems will hopefully help.

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