My coworker sleeps around and brings their knickers into the office to prove it

DEAR DEIDRE: MY colleague has a different woman in his bed every single night. I know he is telling the truth because each morning he brings in their knickers to show off.

I dread going into work because all he talks about is his latest conquest and what he got up to with them.

I am so jealous. I am 25 and my colleague is 27.


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He has always had a reputation as a womaniser, whereas I struggle to get women to like me.

I have no success with women whatsoever and I feel like a loser.

I would like nothing more than to find a woman to love.

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Please help me be more like him.

DEIDRE SAYS: You are not a loser. For all your friend’s bravado, sex without a real and caring relationship rarely makes anyone really happy.

And bringing in women’s knickers to show off smacks of his insecurities.

The right person for you probably just hasn’t come along yet. Build friendships that will lead to real relationships.

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