My partner has completely lost his sex drive but he's only 28

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner never initiates sex or even seems to want it. I have to make all the moves to get him to be intimate.

We’ve been together for ten years and have two children but sometimes I wonder how they were ever conceived.


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We have sex perhaps once every six months – yet we are both just 28. That’s not normal, is it?

I wonder whether he’s got low testosterone because I dress up for him and ask him whether he wants me to do role play but nothing seems to get him excited. It’s like the whole thing is a chore.

He’s a hardworking plumber but is home early enough most nights to help me bath the kids.

I’m beginning to think there’s something wrong with me.

DEIDRE SAYS: Find a moment to tell him that you can’t live in a sexless relationship. Explain that stress or depression can affect his libido.

Tell him you are worried about him and suggest he gets a check-up with his doctor. If it is not a mental health issue but more a hormone deficiency, his doctor can arrange tests.

My support pack called Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive will help to get your sex life back on track.

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